You each have your own journey, destiny, and purpose. No one can live out your journey, destiny, or purpose but you. Your experiences and your interpretations of your experiences are unique to you. Your senses and reactions to experiences are part of your life. Who and what you are go into the equation of your destiny. You get to make choices based on what your interests are and your life is. It is difficult to judge what you are going through, while you are going through it. Everything goes into the mix of life. Feelings and experiences are what add flavor to life. When you are finished with life, you will get a better perspective of how everything came together and why. Choices and nonchoices are all up to you. You can live out what you need to do. Only you can live out your life. Your joys and challenges are up to you. You are meant to be who and what you are. Enjoy the ride of life.
Lockwood