When people talk about “the right way” to do something, they are only referring to a series of constructs they have been taught or believe. It doesn’t mean it is right for everyone or even right. It is something that worked for someone along the way and they then created it as the way to do things. It could also be something some group or person in a position of power espouses. You get to discover what works for you. There are some things people have learned over a period of time. You can still find the variation that works for you and help you learn and create. There are usually many ways to create the same or similar outcomes. You can try suggestions from those who have done what you are trying to do or create but you still require innovation to grow and expand knowledge and theories. Be willing to try new things that feel right for you.
Lockwood