Each of you must make your own decisions. Take time to figure out what is the right decision for you. If you are part of a couple, place your partner’s needs into the equation. Ultimately, each of you needs to decide what is right for you. Make sure you are honest and open, so that those involved have the information they need to assess what is right for them. If you conceal information, you skew people’s choices. Your attachments to something being a specific way, so you control other people never works. Manipulation will eventually come back on you and not in a good way. Honesty is the better policy.
The Light Command