You each get used to your gifts and talents working a certain way and now they are working and expressing themselves differently. You might have different guides or energies you work with. You might have a different purpose. All these shifts and changes are part of the changes you are experiencing. It is good for you to go through learning your new ways. You are still you. It is like your lives changing, when you start over in a new physical life only you are remaining in your current physical forms. Trust this change. Follow your path. Different is just different. All new things take some time to transition into and to adjust to. It is important to be open and be able to work in the flow. Figure out the right questions that you need to ask. Your answers are there for you.
The Arcturus